Thursday, December 11, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
SUVs at altar, Detroit church prays for a bailout
By Kevin Krolicki and Soyoung Kim
DETROIT (Reuters) - With sport-utility vehicles at the altar and auto workers in the pews, one of Detroit's largest churches on Sunday offered up prayers for Congress to bail out the struggling auto industry...read more here
So I read this article (above) and something just did not feel right to me. Now, I know no one is more righteous than the other or can actually place judgment upon another, but this event did cause my mind to wonder, as my eyebrows rose while reading this story.
So this is what went through my head today... (at the same time being the least judgmental as possible; haha, for those who actually know me.)
My initial reaction, was 'Wow...Detroit, it's always something" and that 'something' is disappointment. This city is literally in the worst position, without a natural disaster involved, and the last thing I would expect is the church to participate in such a political disaster, by displaying 3 Big SUVs in the most sacred portion of the church...the pulpit. In some churches, women are not even allowed in the pulpit.
The Pastor is quoted to say:
"We have never seen as midnight an hour as we face this week," the Rev. Charles Ellis told several thousand congregants at a rousing service at Detroit's Greater Grace Temple. "This week, lives are hanging above an abyss of uncertainty as both houses of Congress decide whether to extend a helping hand."
Now I'm no Theology major, I barely passed Psychology, nor am I anywhere near the perfect Christian, but I do know that Congress does not have 'lives hanging above an abyss of uncertainty', they (the auto industry) put themselves there. And whatever happens, will be in God's will...not Congress. We are directed, in the Bible, to pray for our leaders and officials...not TO OUR LEADERS and OFFICIALS.
Ironically one GM, one Chrysler and one Ford, all HYBRID vehicles were placed in the pulpit. Ironically these are the same three companies that are in need of a financial bail out, and their brand spankin' new, eco-friendly vehicles are donated to the church for display. Symbols of the Big Three were placed in the pulpit...the pulpit. I'm no Marketing Exec (yet), but that is called product placement...and my gut says that belongs in movies, and commercials.
So now it makes me think on another level...can this be seen as how much our world depends on earthly materials? That even the church finds it necessary to actually have SUVs parked right next to the pastor. I do not actually believe the church was praying to these vehicles, and maybe the news article did not do the church service any justice. But I would hope that the auto-workers were being prayed for, and not Congress' decision for the bailout. Which would then mean these SUVs served no actual purpose to the congregation, because auto-workers have been in distress long before the church service.
Lastly, if you haven't felt me yet...Our nation's Big Three cannot save us...but there is the real BIG THREE that will...and we call them the Holy Trinity (The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit)...no SUV can fill that space, especially in the pulpit.
Tritonslostboy
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Congrats Lil' Wayne
So I wrote the previous blog a couple days ago...before I found out Wayne is nominated for 8 Grammy's this year. Finally talent is getting recognized! (let's not forget Rhianna won the best R&B album over Beyonce, and other more talented vocalists, lol.)
Anyway, hats off to Wayne, he's been around for almost 10 years, he deserves it.
Anyway, hats off to Wayne, he's been around for almost 10 years, he deserves it.
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Hip Hop is Making a Turn...for the Good
I never thought I could say this but
Well learning to 'love' again.
After some dark days in the late 90s to early 2000s, I directed high levels of my attention to 80's and 90's music. At least I knew TCQ, Missy, Busta, De La, Heavy D, LL, and The Fugees (only examples) wouldn't let me down...Now I am still fixed on the 80s and 90s, but I have open my heart to Hip Hop once again, and I'm not afraid of disappointment.
Jay-Z has returned on some grown-man
Kanye broke the mode with '808s and Heartbreaks'
Common remains poetically satisfying
Pharrell, and N.E.R.D re-inventing Hip Hop and breaking boundaries...
Lupe Fiasco is carrying the 'Torch.'
and finally...
I never thought I'd give props to Lil Wayne, but I have mad respect for him (although I disagree with his statements about Al Sharpton, ha ha)
His lyrics are entertaining and creative. He's not someone I would let babysit my kids (if I had kids), but he's more like someone that's always up for a party, ha ha. We all have that person in our lives, and if you don't, then you should get one, ha ha.
I see this group of Artists as 'Hip Hop Revivers.' I know there are many more "reformers" saving hip hop (I.e. Q-tip, Mosdef, Talib), but I see these five as the most influential at this time.
Look out for CRS (Lupe, Kanye, and Pharrell)
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What constitutes as an "influential artist"?
-longevity
-respect
-cross-over...genre, culture, national, and international
-record breaking career
"Hip Hop and Rap are not synonymous" to be continued...
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I LOVE HIP-HOP!
Well learning to 'love' again.
After some dark days in the late 90s to early 2000s, I directed high levels of my attention to 80's and 90's music. At least I knew TCQ, Missy, Busta, De La, Heavy D, LL, and The Fugees (only examples) wouldn't let me down...Now I am still fixed on the 80s and 90s, but I have open my heart to Hip Hop once again, and I'm not afraid of disappointment.
Jay-Z has returned on some grown-man
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Lupe Fiasco is carrying the 'Torch.'
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I never thought I'd give props to Lil Wayne, but I have mad respect for him (although I disagree with his statements about Al Sharpton, ha ha)
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I see this group of Artists as 'Hip Hop Revivers.' I know there are many more "reformers" saving hip hop (I.e. Q-tip, Mosdef, Talib), but I see these five as the most influential at this time.
Look out for CRS (Lupe, Kanye, and Pharrell)
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What constitutes as an "influential artist"?
-longevity
-respect
-cross-over...genre, culture, national, and international
-record breaking career
"Hip Hop and Rap are not synonymous" to be continued...
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Beyonce...My Endorsement
So on a lighter note...I would like to publicly announce that:
HAT'S OFF TO YOU...
I have endorsed Ms. BEYONCE Knowles.
This Sasha Fierce album is the maturity I've been waiting for. No more of that "Crazy in Love" and "Ring the Alarm" hollering and screaming all the dang time. I can actually enjoy her voice for the majority of her album. Before, all I had was "Me, Myself, and I" and "Emotional" ( I sound real weak right now, but I'd rather listen to a woman's voice in my ear than a dude, if I choose to listen to R&B).
There is no one, today (that is sane and drug free) that has the talent that's even close enough to hold a candle to...NOT ONE.
So why am I now "open" about this? First, it was this album, and then I saw this "Single Ladies" video. I used to ignore the song, just because it was another hollering and screaming song...but this video is amazing, by far her best video.
Since 1998, with "No, no, no", she hasn't stopped the hustle, and obviously hasn't looked down either...10 years going strong, keep it up.
This is where she got her inspiration...which is even more awesome!
There is no one, today (that is sane and drug free) that has the talent that's even close enough to hold a candle to...NOT ONE.
So why am I now "open" about this? First, it was this album, and then I saw this "Single Ladies" video. I used to ignore the song, just because it was another hollering and screaming song...but this video is amazing, by far her best video.
Since 1998, with "No, no, no", she hasn't stopped the hustle, and obviously hasn't looked down either...10 years going strong, keep it up.
I watch it on mute sometimes...the choreography is great ;)
This is where she got her inspiration...which is even more awesome!
HAT'S OFF TO YOU...
Slaves Helped Build the White House
WASHINGTON (CNN) -- In January, President-elect Barack Obama and his family will make history, becoming the first African-American first family to move into the White House -- a house with a history of slavery. In fact, the legacy of American presidents owning slaves goes all the way back to George Washington.
A carpenter's roll from 1795 includes the names of five slaves named Tom, Peter, Ben, Harry and Daniel.
3 of 3 Twelve American presidents owned slaves and eight of them, starting with Washington, owned slaves while in office. Almost from the very start, slaves were a common sight in the executive mansion. A list of construction workers building the White House in 1795 includes five slaves - named Tom, Peter, Ben, Harry and Daniel -- all put to work as carpenters. Other slaves worked as masons in the government quarries, cutting the stone for early government buildings, including the White House and U.S. Capitol. According to records kept by the White House Historical Association, slaves often worked seven days a week -- even in the hot and humid Washington summers.
Read more here
A carpenter's roll from 1795 includes the names of five slaves named Tom, Peter, Ben, Harry and Daniel.
3 of 3 Twelve American presidents owned slaves and eight of them, starting with Washington, owned slaves while in office. Almost from the very start, slaves were a common sight in the executive mansion. A list of construction workers building the White House in 1795 includes five slaves - named Tom, Peter, Ben, Harry and Daniel -- all put to work as carpenters. Other slaves worked as masons in the government quarries, cutting the stone for early government buildings, including the White House and U.S. Capitol. According to records kept by the White House Historical Association, slaves often worked seven days a week -- even in the hot and humid Washington summers.
Read more here
Monday, December 1, 2008
DIVORCE: Which Home for the Holidays
The holiday season is known for the time we all like to spend with the ones we love. But what about this obligation to choose with whom we'd rather spend our time, like our parents?
Who is "we"? We are children of separated families- divorced parents.
Growing up between two homes has been difficult, confusing and exhausting. It's been difficult having to travel from one house to another- across town, states, or country. We have to miss out on summer vacations with friends, birthday parties, and those fun 'once in a lifetime' moments.
Unfortunately, this is not the position nor decision we chose to make for our lives...it was made for us. Whether this decision was directly or indirectly made, a choice was provided and we had/have to oblige.
What's confusing is spending majority of our time with the custodial parent and their family, at the sacrifice of our visiting parent and their family. Those moments when spending time with the visiting parents' family becomes tense because you haven't seen them in years. Asking a distant relative,"how are the ladies doing across the street from you, that sit on the porch?" and finding out they have passed away years ago, is a rude awakening of how distant we can be from our separated families that were once united.
What makes things worse, is when parents cannot even be under the same roof together; when we have to hurt one parent in order to make the other parent happy, by 'selecting' which parent we'd 'rather' spend our time. This confusion only makes us want to be further away from home because we'd rather be by ourselves than hurt our parents that we love so much.
I find it common, personally, that when people 'fall in love' they have dreams and expectations of each other...and maybe, one day, children will be involved when the time is right. What exactly is the right time? Do 50% of our parents get married too early? Or did our parents make each other a priority above us? Did they decide to divide the family, because they didn't love each other anymore, therefore not allowing this family to exist? Did Mom or Dad not meet expectations to provide for the family?
I'm sure there are many justifiable reasons for divorce...a home is not a 'home' if the walls are not supporting the roof. Whatever the reason, "we" should take our current positions in consideration as we make further steps towards love, marriage and family, while keeping God first.
Some of us are blessed that we have not experienced such a division where we were "forced" to choose which parent to spend our holidays and seasonal breaks, at the expense of the other parent. Unfortunately a choice had to be made. We should be grateful for the relationship our parents created for our benefit. Although the marriage did not work out, the family is still able to exist.
I truly believe that once we decide to commit ourselves to our loved ones- in God's name- that we become a priority to each other at that point of marriage. As children are introduced into this union our priority shifts to the responsibility of managing the family, where the child comes before anything else. If divorce is the ONLY option in order to maintain a healthy family, then so be it.
I learned the secret to Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith's marriage is that they will not allow divorce to be an option to resolve any troubles in the relationship...only at death will they part...they promised God. Of course this is easier said than done, but it should be embodied by all of us.
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Who is "we"? We are children of separated families- divorced parents.
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Unfortunately, this is not the position nor decision we chose to make for our lives...it was made for us. Whether this decision was directly or indirectly made, a choice was provided and we had/have to oblige.
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I'm sure there are many justifiable reasons for divorce...a home is not a 'home' if the walls are not supporting the roof. Whatever the reason, "we" should take our current positions in consideration as we make further steps towards love, marriage and family, while keeping God first.
Some of us are blessed that we have not experienced such a division where we were "forced" to choose which parent to spend our holidays and seasonal breaks, at the expense of the other parent. Unfortunately a choice had to be made. We should be grateful for the relationship our parents created for our benefit. Although the marriage did not work out, the family is still able to exist.
I truly believe that once we decide to commit ourselves to our loved ones- in God's name- that we become a priority to each other at that point of marriage. As children are introduced into this union our priority shifts to the responsibility of managing the family, where the child comes before anything else. If divorce is the ONLY option in order to maintain a healthy family, then so be it.
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Friday, November 21, 2008
Thursday, November 20, 2008
How strong is a man without his rib?
Someone once told me 'God made man. The woman was then created from man's rib...the man was made larger and given strength. The woman was made smaller and protected all vital organs needed to sustain life.'
How strong is a man without his rib?
How strong is a man if he treats his body badly?
How strong is a man if he doesn't protect his own rib?
What if man's rib had a mind of her own?
What if she wasn't taken care of properly?
What if she could walk away from his body, because she's not happy anymore?
How strong is a man without his rib?
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'Daddy's Lil Girl' Complex: Part 2 of 2
This entry is specifically for those who self-identify as "Daddy's Lil Girl." For those who dream and expect to find a man who will love and provide for them like their father (a different love, of course).
As a young man, I've met young ladies that have this idea of what a 'man' is supposed to be, lol. And too many times, they end up describing their Old Man. Unfortunately with societal changes (individualistic mentalities; i.e. People taking care of themselves), the man our fathers became, grew up in another era...as well as our mothers. This was an era where family traditions were more important than some liberties, where monogamy was backed by gold, where 'going steady' was something proud to say PUBLICLY, and where divorce was not at a 50% success rate (hmm, or maybe I'm describing our grandparents?)
More women are attending college, excelling in male dominated careers, becoming single parents, and being told to 'never to depend on anyone'...and then Hillary Clinton puts '18 million cracks in the glass ceiling.' The female gender role has progressed the most, while the dominate male gender has remained stagnant and/or deteriorating.
Today there is a strong disconnect; men and women have become more independent. But some how gender roles and expectations in relationships have remain pretty much the same.
The Dating Scene: although we have this "New Centennial Woman," with her own her money, that she is proud to say she earns!...but she still expects the man to pick up the tab. Even when our women are 'moving up in the world' the thought of going 'Dutch' has not been of presence in their mind. But why should it, after becoming accustomed to privileges growing up with their true provider, Pops...'Every man should show the same courtesy.'
Unfortunately "Little girl", the men that you are seeking are not planning to be your father...maybe a husband, but there are a few stages before that idea can ever be entertained, lol. Unlike your Old Man, the New Centennial Man/Dude/Boy is not going to volunteer to be your New Daddy. So be careful of expectations you place on your Equal, because he has expectations for you as well. Because he can lie to you, cheat on you, and leave you, like your Daddy won't. Don't set yourself up for disappointment, or try to fill a void that doesn't exist, because you already have a Daddy...you can never have two.
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As a young man, I've met young ladies that have this idea of what a 'man' is supposed to be, lol. And too many times, they end up describing their Old Man. Unfortunately with societal changes (individualistic mentalities; i.e. People taking care of themselves), the man our fathers became, grew up in another era...as well as our mothers. This was an era where family traditions were more important than some liberties, where monogamy was backed by gold, where 'going steady' was something proud to say PUBLICLY, and where divorce was not at a 50% success rate (hmm, or maybe I'm describing our grandparents?)
More women are attending college, excelling in male dominated careers, becoming single parents, and being told to 'never to depend on anyone'...and then Hillary Clinton puts '18 million cracks in the glass ceiling.' The female gender role has progressed the most, while the dominate male gender has remained stagnant and/or deteriorating.
Today there is a strong disconnect; men and women have become more independent. But some how gender roles and expectations in relationships have remain pretty much the same.
The Dating Scene: although we have this "New Centennial Woman," with her own her money, that she is proud to say she earns!...but she still expects the man to pick up the tab. Even when our women are 'moving up in the world' the thought of going 'Dutch' has not been of presence in their mind. But why should it, after becoming accustomed to privileges growing up with their true provider, Pops...'Every man should show the same courtesy.'
Unfortunately "Little girl", the men that you are seeking are not planning to be your father...maybe a husband, but there are a few stages before that idea can ever be entertained, lol. Unlike your Old Man, the New Centennial Man/Dude/Boy is not going to volunteer to be your New Daddy. So be careful of expectations you place on your Equal, because he has expectations for you as well. Because he can lie to you, cheat on you, and leave you, like your Daddy won't. Don't set yourself up for disappointment, or try to fill a void that doesn't exist, because you already have a Daddy...you can never have two.
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Wednesday, November 19, 2008
what if He press RESET on our lives...
So today was the most tension I have ever experienced in the work place. More tense then when my co-worker told me that 'there's no real reason to vote in the city of New York, and your vote does not really matter."
So we got a company update on up-coming changes taking place for Time Inc a few weeks ago. And ever since then, the topic on my floor has been...'so are we still going to have a job tomorrow?' and 'I wonder who's going to get axed.'
Although my team was assured that we will be fine, I just cannot accept it until this storm is over. For all I know, we could be in the 'eye' of this hurricane...while watching others' careers fly like debris while the turbulent winds slowly heads in my cubicle.
Reality hit me hard today, and put a lot into perspective. Although, I know and recognize that everything, everyday, every breath, every crowded subway trip to my stressful job is a BLESSING...
I truly believe God popped me upside the head, just make sure I'm a paying attention, and not sleeping on 'The Job.'
What hit home for me today was that:
1. I just graduated!
2. I'm 25 years old...and potentially getting laid off ALREADY!
3. Will I be able to live off of my emergency savings until I get another job?
4. How long will I and everyone else be out of a job?
5. Will there be other jobs available...considering 80,000 jobs are expected to be cut by the end of the year?
6. RENT! (not the musical)
I had/have this new vision of life...and what if it all went up with the wind and never to return...are we prepared for that? The route we take to get to work, the same people we see every morning, the same $5 Subway foot-long sandwiches we order, and the rude cashier lady, our annoying co-workers we don't want to see as soon as we get to work...the little behaviors that are second nature to us can all be RESET.
Just like accidentally erasing your computer's hard drive, I'm sure there were some important documents you may have lost, plus music and photos...but at the same time we would have to start on a clean slate. That would be hard to adjust for those who have become comfortable in their lifestyles, but also a rude awakening that we are put on this earth for a reason, and not to take anything for granted.
I have a hard time reminding myself not to get attached or too comfortable with my iPod and my digital camera because I cannot take these great devices to Heaven with me, as well as anything else on this earth. While we are on earth, there is 'Work' to be done, spiritually and professionally...and we can sleep, relax, get comfortable when we are called 'Home.'
I close with this...God has an ultimate will for us...our plans come from His blessings that allows us to anticipate a tomorrow- a future...
So we got a company update on up-coming changes taking place for Time Inc a few weeks ago. And ever since then, the topic on my floor has been...'so are we still going to have a job tomorrow?' and 'I wonder who's going to get axed.'
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| From Tritonslostboy |
Although my team was assured that we will be fine, I just cannot accept it until this storm is over. For all I know, we could be in the 'eye' of this hurricane...while watching others' careers fly like debris while the turbulent winds slowly heads in my cubicle.
Reality hit me hard today, and put a lot into perspective. Although, I know and recognize that everything, everyday, every breath, every crowded subway trip to my stressful job is a BLESSING...
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| From Tritonslostboy |
What hit home for me today was that:
1. I just graduated!
2. I'm 25 years old...and potentially getting laid off ALREADY!
3. Will I be able to live off of my emergency savings until I get another job?
4. How long will I and everyone else be out of a job?
5. Will there be other jobs available...considering 80,000 jobs are expected to be cut by the end of the year?
6. RENT! (not the musical)
I had/have this new vision of life...and what if it all went up with the wind and never to return...are we prepared for that? The route we take to get to work, the same people we see every morning, the same $5 Subway foot-long sandwiches we order, and the rude cashier lady, our annoying co-workers we don't want to see as soon as we get to work...the little behaviors that are second nature to us can all be RESET.
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| From Tritonslostboy |
I have a hard time reminding myself not to get attached or too comfortable with my iPod and my digital camera because I cannot take these great devices to Heaven with me, as well as anything else on this earth. While we are on earth, there is 'Work' to be done, spiritually and professionally...and we can sleep, relax, get comfortable when we are called 'Home.'
I close with this...God has an ultimate will for us...our plans come from His blessings that allows us to anticipate a tomorrow- a future...
Time Inc is Bringing the Axe Out....
TIME Inc. today becomes not a publisher of magazines but of pink slips instead.
The magazine giant is expected to cut more than 250 from the payroll as part of an overall plan by Time Inc. CEO Ann Moore and Editor-in-Chief John Huey to slash 600 jobs from its overall work force of 10,200 employees worldwide. (read more...)
The magazine giant is expected to cut more than 250 from the payroll as part of an overall plan by Time Inc. CEO Ann Moore and Editor-in-Chief John Huey to slash 600 jobs from its overall work force of 10,200 employees worldwide. (read more...)
Monday, November 17, 2008
The exinction of the gentleman: part 1 of 2
WARNING!!!
Ladies if you find someone w/ great personality and character, but:
He can't dress well...
He's not that attractive...
He's corny...
He doesn't get paid well...
Please don't dismiss the Brotha...YET...
The "Knight in Shining Armor" inventory is low and the economy is bad right now. The superficial characteristics (muscles, money, and more money) have become a luxury, and will soon fade with time, just as any new style that comes out.
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I would like to begin by letting you know 'Times are changing' and unfortunately, ladies, chivalry is not dead, but it is dying. Our society has become more focused on convenience therefore leading to laziness and selfishness. The 'virgin' is no longer desired as she used to be, because men don't want to deal with the consequences of the relationship (for whatever reason: 'I don't want to settle down,' 'she'll be clingy,' 'I can't commit,'...'she'll want to marry me!')
The 'drive thru' is quicker- get what you want and ROLL OUT. The food may suck, but it'll hold you over until the next meal. And if one place can't supply the meal, then the place across the street will do just fine....
From when I was growing up, the gentleman opens the door for a woman...at ALL TIMES. I learned when going out with my mother and it was time to enter or exit a store, and she would sit and stare at the door, until I opened the door for her, and any other women following behind her. I later realized that it will become my responsibility as a man to provide the same courtesy to another 'woman of interest' or stranger.
There is no true definition of a gentleman.
You can't point one out, but you can label one based on character. Can you judge his character if he doesn't open the car door for you? Probably not. Can you judge his character if he tells you that you have a booger hanging out of your face, or there's something in your teeth? Probably.
Does this mean women should lower their standards? Not at all, but women need to re-evaluate their priorities in what they want in a man. And can that woman meet the same expectations she places upon him ('Daddy's Little' Girl Complex: Part 2 of 2, coming soon).
The harsh reality is that women out number men; which means women can be disregarded easier, as men continue to look for convenience with the fewest compromises. Until then...that 24hr. Drive Thru will do just fine!
**I personally do not justify or condone a Drive-thru lifestyle, it's very unhealthy, and lacks the nutrients that are needed to make a man, a better man...which would be a good woman (and visa versa). My opinions are based on personal observations and realizations.**
Questions:
Is it possible to be a gentleman and enjoy the 'drive thru'?
What is the definition of a gentleman?
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Ladies if you find someone w/ great personality and character, but:
He can't dress well...
He's not that attractive...
He's corny...
He doesn't get paid well...
Please don't dismiss the Brotha...YET...
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The "Knight in Shining Armor" inventory is low and the economy is bad right now. The superficial characteristics (muscles, money, and more money) have become a luxury, and will soon fade with time, just as any new style that comes out.
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I would like to begin by letting you know 'Times are changing' and unfortunately, ladies, chivalry is not dead, but it is dying. Our society has become more focused on convenience therefore leading to laziness and selfishness. The 'virgin' is no longer desired as she used to be, because men don't want to deal with the consequences of the relationship (for whatever reason: 'I don't want to settle down,' 'she'll be clingy,' 'I can't commit,'...'she'll want to marry me!')
The 'drive thru' is quicker- get what you want and ROLL OUT. The food may suck, but it'll hold you over until the next meal. And if one place can't supply the meal, then the place across the street will do just fine....
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From when I was growing up, the gentleman opens the door for a woman...at ALL TIMES. I learned when going out with my mother and it was time to enter or exit a store, and she would sit and stare at the door, until I opened the door for her, and any other women following behind her. I later realized that it will become my responsibility as a man to provide the same courtesy to another 'woman of interest' or stranger.
There is no true definition of a gentleman.
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You can't point one out, but you can label one based on character. Can you judge his character if he doesn't open the car door for you? Probably not. Can you judge his character if he tells you that you have a booger hanging out of your face, or there's something in your teeth? Probably.
Does this mean women should lower their standards? Not at all, but women need to re-evaluate their priorities in what they want in a man. And can that woman meet the same expectations she places upon him ('Daddy's Little' Girl Complex: Part 2 of 2, coming soon).
The harsh reality is that women out number men; which means women can be disregarded easier, as men continue to look for convenience with the fewest compromises. Until then...that 24hr. Drive Thru will do just fine!
**I personally do not justify or condone a Drive-thru lifestyle, it's very unhealthy, and lacks the nutrients that are needed to make a man, a better man...which would be a good woman (and visa versa). My opinions are based on personal observations and realizations.**
Questions:
Is it possible to be a gentleman and enjoy the 'drive thru'?
What is the definition of a gentleman?
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Friday, November 14, 2008
Shakira Smiler: Divided loyalties
Should black students join historically racist groups?
By Shakira Smiler
On November 13th, 2008
On Nov. 4, the United States saw a shift in world history with its election of the first African-American president. The U.S. president, arguably the most powerful person in the world, has “historically” been an old, upper-class, white male. Many Americans never dreamed that the day would come when an African-American would hold this title because “historically,” minorities have experienced oppression and discrimination often supported by government officials and political leaders — including presidents. In fact, most of the early presidents were slave-owners themselves.
So should Barack Obama be exiled from the black community for accepting a position that has “historically” been racist against blacks? Of course not.
Yet, here on campus, one student organization has come under fire from some in the black community because its president chose to join an organization that was “historically” racist against students of color.
For over five years, the Black Volunteer Network has actively contributed to Black Welcome Week. But this summer, the community service-based organization found itself alienated from all Black Welcome Week-sponsored events because of its president’s membership in Order of Angell, a society of campus leaders previously known as Michigamua. This past summer, in a Salem Witch Hunt-esque town hall meeting, Gabrielle Sims — a senior in the Ross School of Business and the president of BVN — pleaded with several black leaders on campus to allow her organization to be recognized as a Black Welcome Week participant.
Eligible members of organizations participating in Black Welcome Week took part in a formal vote, and the final decision was that the Black Welcome Week committee would not endorse BVN.
The society formerly known as Michigamua has been a controversial subject on campus since it came under fire for its use of Native American rituals and artifacts in secret but integral parts of its ceremonies. Since then, the organization has repudiated such offensive practices, publicly disclosed the names of its members and changed its name in order to salvage its reputation and represent its move toward less offensive, more sensitive practices.
Cordaye Ogletree, the speaker of the Black Student Union and an LSA junior, explained his group’s criticisms of the group this way: “The Black Student Union does not support historically racist student organizations like Order of Angell because of their secrecy and their refusal to be a completely open and transparent organization.”
It is completely understandable that black students would be outraged by the disrespectful past of Michigamua, its successor Order of Angell and its members. But completely exiling a whole organization created to uplift the black community because of one person’s affiliation is divisive and detrimental to an already underrepresented community on campus.
In an evolving nation where a black man has been elected to the highest level of leadership in the country, it is disheartening to know that many black students often feel as if they are forced to choose between loyalty to their ethnicity and loyalty to their professional ambitions.
If black students at the University are ostracized for joining organizations that have past ties to racism and discrimination, then are black students at this school traitors to the black community because we opted to give thousands of dollars to a historically white institution rather than historically black colleges and universities? Are black families that move from the inner city into suburban areas selfish because their tax dollars are being spent to enhance an already advantaged community? Are black women who choose to join Delta Delta Delta over Delta Sigma Theta (the largest black sorority) any less black because of their affiliation?
Echoing Ogletree’s concerns about Order of Angell, Brandon Littlejohn, an LSA and School of Music senior and the president of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc., Epsilon Chapter, told me, “You cannot claim to serve us and we not have any say in how we are being served or how we are being helped.”
Brandon has a great point. But how do we have a say if we completely excommunicate ourselves from organizations that have been misguided? We miss out on teachable moments and opportunities to evoke change. We limit the possibilities to educate the broader society on the issues important in our community because we cannot simply expect to impact an organization if we don’t individually help make internal changes.
As Sims explained to me, this was the opportunity Order of Angell presented. “Order of Angell has given me a forum to improve campus by branching away from a segregated university community and by facilitating campus synergy,” she said.
At many white universities, black students were not allowed to live in on-campus housing and thus formed their own social organizations, like historically black fraternities and sororities, so that they could support one another. But now, as more and more leadership opportunities are opening up for black students in traditionally white institutions, we should use this as an opportunity to restructure a system that has negatively displaced African-Americans.
As black students, we should always strive to help progress the black community, but we cannot progress the community when we only discuss our problems among each other. The only way we can accomplish this is by knocking down walls and turning communal black issues into larger societal issues, even if this means we have to do it through organizations that have historically turned us away.
Shakira Smiler can be reached at stsmiler@umich.edu.
By Shakira Smiler
On November 13th, 2008
On Nov. 4, the United States saw a shift in world history with its election of the first African-American president. The U.S. president, arguably the most powerful person in the world, has “historically” been an old, upper-class, white male. Many Americans never dreamed that the day would come when an African-American would hold this title because “historically,” minorities have experienced oppression and discrimination often supported by government officials and political leaders — including presidents. In fact, most of the early presidents were slave-owners themselves.
So should Barack Obama be exiled from the black community for accepting a position that has “historically” been racist against blacks? Of course not.
Yet, here on campus, one student organization has come under fire from some in the black community because its president chose to join an organization that was “historically” racist against students of color.
For over five years, the Black Volunteer Network has actively contributed to Black Welcome Week. But this summer, the community service-based organization found itself alienated from all Black Welcome Week-sponsored events because of its president’s membership in Order of Angell, a society of campus leaders previously known as Michigamua. This past summer, in a Salem Witch Hunt-esque town hall meeting, Gabrielle Sims — a senior in the Ross School of Business and the president of BVN — pleaded with several black leaders on campus to allow her organization to be recognized as a Black Welcome Week participant.
Eligible members of organizations participating in Black Welcome Week took part in a formal vote, and the final decision was that the Black Welcome Week committee would not endorse BVN.
The society formerly known as Michigamua has been a controversial subject on campus since it came under fire for its use of Native American rituals and artifacts in secret but integral parts of its ceremonies. Since then, the organization has repudiated such offensive practices, publicly disclosed the names of its members and changed its name in order to salvage its reputation and represent its move toward less offensive, more sensitive practices.
Cordaye Ogletree, the speaker of the Black Student Union and an LSA junior, explained his group’s criticisms of the group this way: “The Black Student Union does not support historically racist student organizations like Order of Angell because of their secrecy and their refusal to be a completely open and transparent organization.”
It is completely understandable that black students would be outraged by the disrespectful past of Michigamua, its successor Order of Angell and its members. But completely exiling a whole organization created to uplift the black community because of one person’s affiliation is divisive and detrimental to an already underrepresented community on campus.
In an evolving nation where a black man has been elected to the highest level of leadership in the country, it is disheartening to know that many black students often feel as if they are forced to choose between loyalty to their ethnicity and loyalty to their professional ambitions.
If black students at the University are ostracized for joining organizations that have past ties to racism and discrimination, then are black students at this school traitors to the black community because we opted to give thousands of dollars to a historically white institution rather than historically black colleges and universities? Are black families that move from the inner city into suburban areas selfish because their tax dollars are being spent to enhance an already advantaged community? Are black women who choose to join Delta Delta Delta over Delta Sigma Theta (the largest black sorority) any less black because of their affiliation?
Echoing Ogletree’s concerns about Order of Angell, Brandon Littlejohn, an LSA and School of Music senior and the president of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc., Epsilon Chapter, told me, “You cannot claim to serve us and we not have any say in how we are being served or how we are being helped.”
Brandon has a great point. But how do we have a say if we completely excommunicate ourselves from organizations that have been misguided? We miss out on teachable moments and opportunities to evoke change. We limit the possibilities to educate the broader society on the issues important in our community because we cannot simply expect to impact an organization if we don’t individually help make internal changes.
As Sims explained to me, this was the opportunity Order of Angell presented. “Order of Angell has given me a forum to improve campus by branching away from a segregated university community and by facilitating campus synergy,” she said.
At many white universities, black students were not allowed to live in on-campus housing and thus formed their own social organizations, like historically black fraternities and sororities, so that they could support one another. But now, as more and more leadership opportunities are opening up for black students in traditionally white institutions, we should use this as an opportunity to restructure a system that has negatively displaced African-Americans.
As black students, we should always strive to help progress the black community, but we cannot progress the community when we only discuss our problems among each other. The only way we can accomplish this is by knocking down walls and turning communal black issues into larger societal issues, even if this means we have to do it through organizations that have historically turned us away.
Shakira Smiler can be reached at stsmiler@umich.edu.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
What's the beef? (edited)
The Black student body should be the strongest on a college campus, since they worked the hardest to gain higher education...in my opinion. The Black student body should be so strong in fact that nothing is able to break the bond. The same bond that was used in the Civil Rights protests, where they were beaten, spit on, chewed, dehumanized and murdered.
Just as 'steel sharpens steel' ...only the Black student body is strong enough to cause harm to itself. That bond that held so tightly to protect us in times of turmoil, can only be shattered from within. I guess we can call it low self esteem or depression.
A leading Black student organization asked the other day, "what's the beef?" for their up-coming program. This was after a hateful email was sent to the Black student body. The email was to embarrass a young lady for her decisions; and for her to be exiled by the Black community. Fortunately the Black student body replied in opposition to the sender of this hateful email, which lead to more students defending this young lady and her decisions she has made for herself.
What I find interesting is how this same organization who's main goal is the uplift and the progression of the Black student body has publicly announced (or whispered) not supporting another Black organization, because of the President's affiliation with an other group. This 'other group' has a negative history in which dealt with racism and discriminatory activity against people of color and other minorities. For what it's worth many institutions have been guilty of the same injustices:
Fortunately, times have changed...and progress is being made. Maybe not at the pace we would like it to go, but forward steps are being made at the same time. Just as these times have changed, we see history being made... names, and faces are changing. Thurgood Marshall, Colin Powell, Barack Obama, Frederick Douglass, David Patterson, etc...are all changing the face of the same institutions that have caused injustices to the Black Community. These changes could not have been made with out individuals taking that step out of the their community and reaching for this new 'access to power,' 'access to knowledge,' 'access to experience.' These changes could not have been made without the support of their Black Community.
So the Black Student Organization 1 (BSO1), for years has vowed to not associate with the Order of Angell organization (formally Michiguama). The President of the BSO2 and many other Black student leaders were 'tapped' to join this formal secret society organization, and have chosen to become members. Unfortunately due to the O of A's history, and the BSO1's promise of disassociation...they have decided to not support the entire BSO2 unless the President surrenders her position.
Hmm...a Black organization closing their doors to another Black organization? Both offer a place of unity among the Black student body, but BSO1 finds the affiliation of one member of BSO2 with O of A is more compelling than keep the Black Community UNITED.
BSO1...What's the beef?...
The BLACK STUDENT ORGANIZATION...I said 'what's the beef?'
Instead of dividing our Black Community, how about you support it. Allow our brothers and sisters to step out and gain this 'access' to possibly new opportunities. Let's remember the past, and move forward "Sankofa". And while our brothers and sisters are out making history, don't you dare close your door on them.
BSO1...you ask 'what's the beef' and want to bring up dialogue on the isssues dividing our Black community, but you are committing the same self-destructing injustices. Jesse Jackson preached about change and progress, and got caught doing the opposite. BSO1, you are so powerful, and 'with great power comes great responsibility' (I got it from Spiderman).
BSO1,
Stand for something or fall for anything, but be prepared to be left behind...and questioned just as Jesse Jackson was. There is a bigger picture here, and it goes beyond the college campus. A division within, is the worst thing that can happen to us. We have more important issues to confrontm, and we need as much support as we can get.
I love your organization, no matter what...but I disagree with your decision.
__________________________________________________________________
Q: So "Why do you care?....You're no longer relevant to the campus anymore.."
A: I care because I am an Alum of this same student body. I care because I care about Black folks. I thought that was enough.
Just as 'steel sharpens steel' ...only the Black student body is strong enough to cause harm to itself. That bond that held so tightly to protect us in times of turmoil, can only be shattered from within. I guess we can call it low self esteem or depression.
A leading Black student organization asked the other day, "what's the beef?" for their up-coming program. This was after a hateful email was sent to the Black student body. The email was to embarrass a young lady for her decisions; and for her to be exiled by the Black community. Fortunately the Black student body replied in opposition to the sender of this hateful email, which lead to more students defending this young lady and her decisions she has made for herself.
What I find interesting is how this same organization who's main goal is the uplift and the progression of the Black student body has publicly announced (or whispered) not supporting another Black organization, because of the President's affiliation with an other group. This 'other group' has a negative history in which dealt with racism and discriminatory activity against people of color and other minorities. For what it's worth many institutions have been guilty of the same injustices:
- The United States of America
- The U.S. Presidency
- The U.S. Government
- Colleges and State Universities
- Our neighbors
Fortunately, times have changed...and progress is being made. Maybe not at the pace we would like it to go, but forward steps are being made at the same time. Just as these times have changed, we see history being made... names, and faces are changing. Thurgood Marshall, Colin Powell, Barack Obama, Frederick Douglass, David Patterson, etc...are all changing the face of the same institutions that have caused injustices to the Black Community. These changes could not have been made with out individuals taking that step out of the their community and reaching for this new 'access to power,' 'access to knowledge,' 'access to experience.' These changes could not have been made without the support of their Black Community.
So the Black Student Organization 1 (BSO1), for years has vowed to not associate with the Order of Angell organization (formally Michiguama). The President of the BSO2 and many other Black student leaders were 'tapped' to join this formal secret society organization, and have chosen to become members. Unfortunately due to the O of A's history, and the BSO1's promise of disassociation...they have decided to not support the entire BSO2 unless the President surrenders her position.
Hmm...a Black organization closing their doors to another Black organization? Both offer a place of unity among the Black student body, but BSO1 finds the affiliation of one member of BSO2 with O of A is more compelling than keep the Black Community UNITED.
BSO1...What's the beef?...
The BLACK STUDENT ORGANIZATION...I said 'what's the beef?'
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Instead of dividing our Black Community, how about you support it. Allow our brothers and sisters to step out and gain this 'access' to possibly new opportunities. Let's remember the past, and move forward "Sankofa". And while our brothers and sisters are out making history, don't you dare close your door on them.
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BSO1...you ask 'what's the beef' and want to bring up dialogue on the isssues dividing our Black community, but you are committing the same self-destructing injustices. Jesse Jackson preached about change and progress, and got caught doing the opposite. BSO1, you are so powerful, and 'with great power comes great responsibility' (I got it from Spiderman).
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BSO1,
Stand for something or fall for anything, but be prepared to be left behind...and questioned just as Jesse Jackson was. There is a bigger picture here, and it goes beyond the college campus. A division within, is the worst thing that can happen to us. We have more important issues to confrontm, and we need as much support as we can get.
I love your organization, no matter what...but I disagree with your decision.
__________________________________________________________________
Q: So "Why do you care?....You're no longer relevant to the campus anymore.."
A: I care because I am an Alum of this same student body. I care because I care about Black folks. I thought that was enough.
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
I Was Mad At Bob Johnson: Do It for Passion or Profit?
I was going to be mad at Robert L. Johnson for selling Black Entertainment Television. Then I had time to see Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married. I noticed Perry’s signature All-Black casting. For this movie, I saw faces I haven’t seen in YEARS…YEARS!! Michael Jai White! I haven’t seen him since Spawn, Malik Yoba- Cool Runnings and NYUndercover! Then Janet, haven’t seen her since her ok performance in Nutty Professor II. And the crazy chick… she was in House Party III playing a similar role, Tasha Smith. Whether they have been in more recent successful movies or the worst productions, I saw Perry as this great resource to display his art from paper, to stage-plays, to theatres. His success has given him and others so many opportunities.
So what does this have to do with Bob Johnson? I came to a realization that people DO IT for the passion or for the profit. Reading an article in Black Enterprise interviewing Bob Johnson and his success; he was asked why he sold BET. He responds saying that BET had many outside investors…and he had obligations to give his investors the maximum return, Viacom offered the highest. And had there been a minority company willing to pay as much, they could have made a deal. But there wasn’t.
So the end result, we have what some have called BET…Blacks Embarrassing Themselves. Did Bob Johnson bail out on us? For profit? What would have happened if he didn’t sell BET?
Lets talk about PROFIT. Lets make our decisions based on what our consumer demands…whatever is most profitable. T-Pain, Soulja Boy, Dream, Rhianna, and 50 Cent sells (not a group of the most talented performers, non-artists) are top selling. Real World, Survivor, Leguna Beach, America’s Next Top Model, The Real OC…high rated shows. We begin to see an increase in similar entertainment; superficial-reality shows, thug-computerized, leg insured music.
Back to BET…in its transition from B.J. to Viacom…Teen Summit, BET News, Caribbean Rhythms, Tavis Smiley begin to disappear. An increase in music videos, UNCUT (~3am), 106 & Park, College Hill, and this season’s Hot Ghetto Mess (later re-titled, “We have to do better…”) and Hell Date appear. All deemed profitable by Mr. Johnson and his trusty new owner, Viacom. In my opinion, this profitable decision, BLACK FACED the primary source of Black media that people like you and I desire to view.
Lets talk about PASSION. Lets make our decisions based on what we demand most gratifying. Maybe our educational system would be better. Lord knows our teachers aren’t doing this for the money, nor profit at that! Social workers, maybe our judicial, health care, and social security policies would take care of us more efficiently. Maybe Mos Def, Talib, and Common (solely examples…This is a later discussion) would be more respected and appreciated.
From my observation (I could be wrong, for once…but doubt it.) When I see T. Perry’s films, I feel like he is actually driven by passion. His passion led him to greater opportunities.*I’m assuming here, but he has not investors or ‘owners’ to tell him to make the most ‘profitable’ films/ plays.* I’m a jerk for this one, but I don’t think there is enough shoe polish and tap shoes in the world if BJ were to produce a film. And due to Perry’s passionate drive, he also opened doors….actually he PROPPED those bad-boys open! For more actors to perform…literally reviving Black Films.
I’m sure you BJ supporters are saying, ‘wait! BJ gives opportunities.’ I’m sure he does/is. Real estate, the Bobcats, gaming-entertainment business in the Caribbean (I wonder if there is cheaper labor in the islands…) are his new projects with RLJ Developments L.L.C. These are new great things to do and all, but will this passion for profit place Johnson’s new developments in the hands of the ‘top buyer’ like the BET situation. Or will Johnson find time and use some extra energy to open a door for his own Black businessmen…no matter the sacrifice!? Not necessarily discriminating to only the Black community, but giving guidance to the success that Johnson created. We see Perry and others propping doors open…and NOT opening/selling opportunities to the HIGHEST BUYER.
I will say this, I do not know what BJ or TP’s ultimate goals are. But as of now, seeing two leading, unstoppable Black men using their success for PROFIT or PASSION…I am disappointed that BET was sold to become more PROFITABLE…instead of PRICELESS. Hey, we still have TV-ONE to depend on!
So I was mad at Bob Johnson for his profitable decision with BET, but with his new $3 Billion he has opportunity to do whatever he ‘wants to do.’ I can’t be mad him for that!
Thanks Mark for not selling off FACEBOOK; that’s what MYSPACE is for…
**Denzel Washington did not want to be in Great Debaters. In order to get the financial support to create this film, he had to star in it…so he did. His response to Tavis Smiley, “Do what you have to do, to do what you want to do.”
Trite-flection:
I was at a point of stagnation. What do I want to do with my life? Money vs. Happiness. I’ve always wanted to be in more of a creative field…I ended up Advertisement Sales (irony). Choosing my happiness/passion, may not provide me with my own place, decent clothing, paying bills/saving, New Year’s Eve in NYC…a social life. So now I have decided to ‘do what I have to do, so I can do what I want to do.’
I’ve been co-hosting an online radio show recently on Sunday evenings, and have becoming interested in starting my own show. I love people, entertainment and enlightenment. This may be an avenue to pursue happiness. And I can still do what I have to do, at the same time.
QUOTE:
“Do what you have to do, to do what you want to do.”- Great Debaters
So what does this have to do with Bob Johnson? I came to a realization that people DO IT for the passion or for the profit. Reading an article in Black Enterprise interviewing Bob Johnson and his success; he was asked why he sold BET. He responds saying that BET had many outside investors…and he had obligations to give his investors the maximum return, Viacom offered the highest. And had there been a minority company willing to pay as much, they could have made a deal. But there wasn’t.
So the end result, we have what some have called BET…Blacks Embarrassing Themselves. Did Bob Johnson bail out on us? For profit? What would have happened if he didn’t sell BET?
Lets talk about PROFIT. Lets make our decisions based on what our consumer demands…whatever is most profitable. T-Pain, Soulja Boy, Dream, Rhianna, and 50 Cent sells (not a group of the most talented performers, non-artists) are top selling. Real World, Survivor, Leguna Beach, America’s Next Top Model, The Real OC…high rated shows. We begin to see an increase in similar entertainment; superficial-reality shows, thug-computerized, leg insured music.
Back to BET…in its transition from B.J. to Viacom…Teen Summit, BET News, Caribbean Rhythms, Tavis Smiley begin to disappear. An increase in music videos, UNCUT (~3am), 106 & Park, College Hill, and this season’s Hot Ghetto Mess (later re-titled, “We have to do better…”) and Hell Date appear. All deemed profitable by Mr. Johnson and his trusty new owner, Viacom. In my opinion, this profitable decision, BLACK FACED the primary source of Black media that people like you and I desire to view.
Lets talk about PASSION. Lets make our decisions based on what we demand most gratifying. Maybe our educational system would be better. Lord knows our teachers aren’t doing this for the money, nor profit at that! Social workers, maybe our judicial, health care, and social security policies would take care of us more efficiently. Maybe Mos Def, Talib, and Common (solely examples…This is a later discussion) would be more respected and appreciated.
From my observation (I could be wrong, for once…but doubt it.) When I see T. Perry’s films, I feel like he is actually driven by passion. His passion led him to greater opportunities.*I’m assuming here, but he has not investors or ‘owners’ to tell him to make the most ‘profitable’ films/ plays.* I’m a jerk for this one, but I don’t think there is enough shoe polish and tap shoes in the world if BJ were to produce a film. And due to Perry’s passionate drive, he also opened doors….actually he PROPPED those bad-boys open! For more actors to perform…literally reviving Black Films.
I’m sure you BJ supporters are saying, ‘wait! BJ gives opportunities.’ I’m sure he does/is. Real estate, the Bobcats, gaming-entertainment business in the Caribbean (I wonder if there is cheaper labor in the islands…) are his new projects with RLJ Developments L.L.C. These are new great things to do and all, but will this passion for profit place Johnson’s new developments in the hands of the ‘top buyer’ like the BET situation. Or will Johnson find time and use some extra energy to open a door for his own Black businessmen…no matter the sacrifice!? Not necessarily discriminating to only the Black community, but giving guidance to the success that Johnson created. We see Perry and others propping doors open…and NOT opening/selling opportunities to the HIGHEST BUYER.
I will say this, I do not know what BJ or TP’s ultimate goals are. But as of now, seeing two leading, unstoppable Black men using their success for PROFIT or PASSION…I am disappointed that BET was sold to become more PROFITABLE…instead of PRICELESS. Hey, we still have TV-ONE to depend on!
So I was mad at Bob Johnson for his profitable decision with BET, but with his new $3 Billion he has opportunity to do whatever he ‘wants to do.’ I can’t be mad him for that!
Thanks Mark for not selling off FACEBOOK; that’s what MYSPACE is for…
**Denzel Washington did not want to be in Great Debaters. In order to get the financial support to create this film, he had to star in it…so he did. His response to Tavis Smiley, “Do what you have to do, to do what you want to do.”
Trite-flection:
I was at a point of stagnation. What do I want to do with my life? Money vs. Happiness. I’ve always wanted to be in more of a creative field…I ended up Advertisement Sales (irony). Choosing my happiness/passion, may not provide me with my own place, decent clothing, paying bills/saving, New Year’s Eve in NYC…a social life. So now I have decided to ‘do what I have to do, so I can do what I want to do.’
I’ve been co-hosting an online radio show recently on Sunday evenings, and have becoming interested in starting my own show. I love people, entertainment and enlightenment. This may be an avenue to pursue happiness. And I can still do what I have to do, at the same time.
QUOTE:
“Do what you have to do, to do what you want to do.”- Great Debaters
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